Have you ever wondered why some people seem to have no problem to apply the law of attraction and others are utterly failing, as they seemingly do the same thing? I am about to show you the most important factor that is determining your success or failure in applying the law of attraction. Most people that hear about the law of attraction start out with a mixture of positive thought and ‘hope’ that their ‘wish’ will come true. The law of attraction does not respond to hope, it responds to expectation.
Here is an example: Why are movie stars always getting the great roles with the big money, although there are thousands of others out there that might even have more talent? Part of it of course is their popularity, but the biggest reason is their EXPECTATION – they expect nothing else then to get the role.
So how can you expect something in a certain way, you might think, without being able to look into the future. For the answer you need to know how the universe and the law of attraction works. The universe (or god) always responds to your expectation, there are no exceptions. It always responds to the way you feel, think or believe about a certain circumstance or event. This means, with your expectations you are creating your future. But there is more to it.
The universe (god) always responds to our expectation, but almost always it answers in a totally different way then we expect it to happen. The human mind works different then the universal mind. The universe responds to our feelings about a situation, it does not pick up the words we form in our minds. While it is very good to expect something and believe in a positive outcome, you should never attach yourself to a very specific manifestation. Be open on how your manifestation will come to you.
If you want more money, then don’t fixate yourself on a specific amount of money and how it should come. Let the universe work out a way on how the money will manifest into your life. For example, you need $5.000 to pay your bills. Always expect ‘at least’ $5.000, this way you could even receive more then the sum you need. Your request could look similar to this: “I am attracting at least $5.000 into my experience and it comes to me in a very joyful and efficient way”. You can always change the wording, but be careful not to be too specific on how the universe should deliver.
If you say: “I will win at least $5.000 in the lottery by next Sunday”, there might be a chance you will achieve this – if your expectation and believe is greater then the expectation of the millions of other lottery players that expect to win. But there is no reason to limit yourself with something, when there are thousands of other ways it could manifest for you.
The power of expectation applies to relationships in the same way. If you are searching for the right person in your life, you soul mate or just a friend, you can do just the same as above. But never fixate yourself on a special person. Applied on relationships, you are dealing with the free will of other persons and the person you want might have other expectations then you. This is a potential problem. The universe responds to expectations of others the same way as it responds to yours.
The easiest way to get your manifestation going, is to formulate your desires in a way that has no potential contradiction with the goals and expectations of others. Of course you can have more money, but not necessarily from the particular source you think it might come from. Sure, it is possible to get a better job, but not necessarily the particular job, that is wanted by others as well (and their expectation at this time is just a tiny little bit greater then yours). Of course you can have a wonderful and fulfilled relationship, but not necessarily a relationship with the particular person you have in mind.
The trick is that you have to focus on what you really want, which should always be something more general – something that is readily available. You can start out very general, for example take wealth or losing weight. Then go into more details, for example that you want a car or you want to feel better want to lose. Feel free to ad certain qualities you want. E.g. make of the car, color etc. – how many pounds you want to lose. Never make the mistake to narrow it down to special situations or people.
The first thing you have to understand, is that our universe is abundant, there is ample supply of everything and no shortage whatsoever. No matter how hard the media and big companies are trying (unfortunately often successful) to convince you otherwise. The examples shown in the news are only a very tiny part of what is happening on our planet. This is a very successful tactic (until now, but it is changing gradually as people start to awaken and realize their own power), used by people holding the power positions to keep the common man/woman in a victim reality.
As soon as you have understood the abundance of our universe, you just need to frame your dreams in the way described above. Then the only other thing you need to do is to relax and expect it to come into your reality. Simply allow it to come to you. Opportunities for you to take action into the direction you want to go will come automatically. Once you have learned to create just the right degree of detail of your desire, you are able to attract everything you want into your life.